DO
LESS THAN YOU CAN!
By Nancy Blair Moon, LCSW
Some years ago a workshop leader began each day with exercises
to waken the body. She talked us through the movements,
then we continued on our own. After observing us, she
called out --authoritatively--”DO LESS THAN YOU
CAN!”
Something snapped. I came out of the posture . “Did
you say, Do less than you can?” I asked, incredulous.
(As a teacher once said, “you can cramp a whole
temporal lobe that way”.)
She explained you can strain the body by pushing too
hard. I’ve taken some yoga and I know about going
to your edge and backing off a bit. My astonishment
and the message that evoked it were on an entirely different
level . “I’ve often done less than I can,
I said, “ but I’ve never been given permission
to.”
Time passed and my fascination remained. It is a permission
we desparately need to take to heart. When I first thought
of writing about “do less than you can”,
another voice in me said (sounding a little programmed),
“What do you mean, DO LESS THAN YOU CAN? We all
need to do MORE---about the environment, racism, sexism,
the neighborhood, political craziness locally, nationally,
globally; about hunger, cleaning the closets, etc....”
(I can get as crazy as the next person).
But when people came where I lived in nature, and went
out on the deck, they took a deep breath and “came
to themselves”. You could hear it. They were re-minded
that we are a body and spirit as well as a brain. Life
is wasted if we don’t do less than we can now
and then. Quakers have a saying “Don’t just
DO something, SIT there.” Some things need time.
Busyness has become an addiction. If we slow down we
risk connecting with much that is uncomfortable. But
if we don’t make a habit of doing less than we
can, we’ll be hurrying toward a future created
without consciousness or mindfulness . If we don’t
go inside, we won’t get it right. I know I need
to take time to contact the Source of my inspiration,
and to discern what serves a higher purpose and what
serves only to distract me momentarily. In my personal
experience, and with clients, mindfulness or awareness
occur when we’ve slowed down. We cannot reach
it at high speed.
My wish for you this season is that you do less than you
can often, so that you may be more present in all that
you do. Pssssst. Pass it on.
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